I’ve have never felt like being liked, wanted, appreciated. Even in the safest places, in my family, at work, with my friends and communities, with my significant other, there was always something missing. I constantly felt unease and unrest, the “un-belonging”. Like I wasn’t seen with my authentic me.
I navigated many places, with many faces, and the feeling stayed with me.
Yes, therapists would say this comes from within, from the inner work we do (or do not) with ourselves. Well…in my opinion, it’s partially true, and their view is limited to their own profession. There are still a lot of factors outside of us that pressure us to break down and feel isolated. It’s not that simple, my dear psychotherapists our there. We don’t live in systems of collaboration and communion, but in separation, competitiveness, individualism. Personal achievement is praised over community thriving. Comparison is induced since early beginnings through family, school, society. Not to mention astrology, she, my dears impact us a lot. Birth chart, transits, progressions, everything pours into our own cup of sensitivities until…we break down.
Now, getting back to feeling rejected and not being part of something. Looking into my astrology, this feeling of rejection and unease definitely has an explanation, even from various angles and planets. But astrology (and what happens to us) is really here to support us in making us more resilient, training us be more persistent and…relearning how to love ourselves and let others love us as well.
There is this wonderful book on psychogenealogy by Chantal Rialland that speaks about finding our own place. In ourselves, in relation to our family and origins, with loved ones and friends and within a community.
If it’s happiness we are looking for and being fulfilled, it’s imperatively needed to find our own “place”. And this place varies along our life. It’s one thing to have a place as a child, another one as an adult. As needs evolve, the place and its coordinates evolves.
Now…at one point I decided that creating this own place was a quicker, smarter, easier strategy to feeling like I belonged. As we are navigating in this time of Pluto in Aquarius, we will be more and more, actively looking for our tribes and places of belonging. We will search for each other. Well, our minds and hearts will do that for ourselves.
One of the places I decided to build is Women Are Healing.Up until now, an online community serving women leaders formally and informally. Now, a community that starts gathering offline as well starting this autumn, in my heart-home: Bali.
“WAH Bali 2024 – I love who I am when I am in Bali” is an experiential, heart opening journey in this high vibrational space in the middle of the Indian Ocean. WAH Bali is your annual, vital sanctuary to reconnect with yourself, your purpose, and with other women leaders like you.
WAH Bali is unique among the trips you’ve experienced. Under my light guidance, this is a trip to remember. It is hyper personalised both to each woman and to the overall group’s needs and dynamics.
There are limited places available and the group registrations close at the end of July.
What is WAH Bali 2024 offering?
- 11 days in transformational November (11th to 22nd) in Bali
- Guidance from me before, during and 1 month after the trip (including your personalised astrology and numerology of 2025)
- Relaxing, beautiful, authentic, nature-infused accommodations I tested also.
- Transfers from airport to accommodations, in between and back to the airport
- Carefully curated agenda with moments of adventure, connection, healing, exploration, giving back to the island, relaxation and regeneration. We will cover temples, waterfalls, jungle, trekking, rice fields, villages, customs, spas, balian healers, coffee shops, restaurants, stargazing, sunsets and sunrises, surfing AND SO MUCH MORE. Details available only via a personal discovery call with me.
YOU are #WAHBali2024. You can also fill-in the pre-meeting survey. And do tell a friend about me and WAH Bali 2024.